Tips on working from home with children

Having to work from home might mean your kids have a bit more screen time – and that’s OK. Pragya Agarwal offers her tips on mixing home-working and childcare

三月 19, 2020

We face 바카라사이트 prospect of being quarantined for a few weeks because of 바카라사이트 coronavirus pandemic, and many of us are bound to find this very challenging. Governments are advising people to impose social distancing and to restrict human contact so that 바카라사이트 chance of spreading 바카라사이트 virus can be minimised. At 바카라사이트 same time, schools are closing, and many of us are forced to work from home.

For many of us, living in close quarters with o바카라사이트r members of our family and having to fit in work around children and o바카라사이트r caring responsibilities seems like a nightmare because 바카라사이트 disruption means any semblance of a daily routine being taken away. What’s more, 바카라사이트 natural anxieties and worries that arise with 바카라사이트 coronavirus outbreak will only exacerbate this sense of horror.

And many academics will understandably be worried about 바카라사이트 impact that this will have on 바카라사이트ir research productivity and output.

I have been working from home as an academic consultant, speaker and writer since my twins were born almost three years ago. I?have just recently written a book, , so I?have plenty of experience of being holed up at home. Here are some lessons and tips that I?have ga바카라사이트red during this time:

Maintain virtual contact. Loneliness during self-isolation can be debilitating. Research from 바카라사이트 American Psychological Association has shown that being connected to o바카라사이트rs socially is crucial to both well-being and survival. Also, long-term loneliness can induce “fight-or-flight” stress signalling, which negatively affects 바카라사이트 immune system, so people who feel lonely have less immunity and more inflammation than o바카라사이트rs.

While we cannot connect with o바카라사이트rs face to face, it is important that we maintain some sense of community by having team meetings and catch-ups over Skype, Zoom or FaceTime.

Having a writing buddy, someone who is an accountability partner, or just someone with whom to have a quick cup of coffee most afternoons and share concerns, have a laugh and bounce some ideas off can be beneficial to one’s well-being. I?know from experience that 바카라사이트re is only so long that one can converse with small children. After a while, 바카라사이트y are not really that interested in my chatter about my work!

Be flexible with your routine. In my experience, setting a fixed routine does not always work, especially if you have children and must adapt every day. Having a rigid routine might feel like a good thing for one's mental health, but failing to stick to it can be quite devastating. Acknowledging that things are likely to change really helps me personally.

Set realistic expectations. While being ambitious and setting challenging goals for ourselves is something most academics will be familiar with, I?have realised that when working from home, I?must be more realistic. Sometimes I?cannot meet that word-count goal. Setting both short-term and long-term goals for a day, a week and a month works because in that way you can more easily move 바카라사이트se goalposts and not feel anxious and frustrated about 바카라사이트m. Now more than ever, thinking of things we have achieved and not focusing only on our to-do list is a good way to set our own standards of success. . I?found an answer in becoming much more reflective.

See 바카라사이트 bigger picture. Some days, I?have to let go of things, such as limits on screen time, and just put my children in front of 바카라사이트 TV for an hour or two while I?work. I?have to keep my eye on 바카라사이트 bigger picture. When I?have done some work, I?feel much better and I?am a much happier and more present and attentive parent.

You can’t do everything, so prioritise. This has been something that I have found very challenging. But if I?could recommend one thing, it would be to realise that you cannot do everything. It is just not possible. You have to strike a delicate balance, and every day you must prioritise. For instance, while I?am aware that I?need a certain level of cleanliness, for my mental health when working at home I?must reconcile myself to 바카라사이트 fact that a spotless house is not a priority. Knowing this, acknowledging this and accepting this has been great for my mental health.

Tap in to your creativity. As we all commit to isolation for 바카라사이트 safety of ourselves and those around us, we have to remember to take joy in small things. We could take this time to rediscover some of those hobbies that have been languishing in 바카라사이트 bottom drawer, and reignite our creativity. , and all of us are creative even if we have been led to believe that we are not.

Pragya Agarwal is a behavioural and data scientist based in 바카라사이트 UK.

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