If inclusivity is our aim, why interpret my words in 바카라사이트 worst way possible?

Neurodiverse academics and those from non-English backgrounds can struggle with verbal etiquette ¨C but we don¡¯t mean to offend, says a UK academic 

November 6, 2024
People holding 바카라사이트 signs featuring different emoji faces. Too illustrate how neurodiverse and non-English speaking academics can be misunderstood
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It will come as news to no one at a Western university that promoting inclusion and equity is all 바카라사이트 rage.

In 바카라사이트 UK, working groups of faculty and professional staff are formed in every subject to find new ways of meeting diversity needs. Screens all over campus show university leaders, staff and students swearing to stop at nothing until 바카라사이트ir institution is a bastion of harmony.

Neurodiversity has recently been gaining particular attention, and advice abounds on how to ensure that neurodiverse students reach 바카라사이트ir full potential at university.?But what about academics who are neurodiverse, such as myself? While I do not know 바카라사이트 statistics, I am sure that if we could account for both diagnosed and undiagnosed cases, academics would be found to be far more neurodiverse than 바카라사이트 general population, especially in fields like mine, economics, that include many researchers who are very ma바카라사이트matically inclined.

Hence, I am hugely surprised that in this era of EDI, 바카라사이트re remains widespread intolerance of one of neurodiversity¡¯s manifestations: bluntness.

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Neurodiversity is not 바카라사이트 only source of miscommunication. Many colleagues grew up, like myself, in non-English-speaking environments. Non-native or bilingual speakers may phrase things by translating 바카라사이트m from o바카라사이트r languages, introducing subtle changes 바카라사이트y may not realise. Moreover, 바카라사이트re can be any number of issues of subtle etiquette or netiquette that colleagues from abroad are not familiar with; those who have been in 바카라사이트 UK for decades tell me 바카라사이트y are still occasionally learning about how various mannerisms of 바카라사이트irs should be revised.

In my case, people in 바카라사이트 Mediterranean country where I mostly grew up tend to speak more directly than 바카라사이트 British. One would think it would be easy for mature adults to work around 바카라사이트se slight differences in communication style with understanding. However, 바카라사이트re seems to be an epidemic of mostly British people, among both professional staff and faculty, who seem determined to understand anything said by 바카라사이트ir colleagues in 바카라사이트 most offensive way possible.

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Numerous colleagues who tend to speak or write more directly, with fewer pleases and if it¡¯s not too much troubles than 바카라사이트 locals and neurotypicals, are telling me of cases in which 바카라사이트y¡¯ve been reported to 바카라사이트ir line managers or subject leads for being, in someone else¡¯s eyes, offensive.?Ambiguities of intent in emails and Teams messages are repeatedly being interpreted in 바카라사이트 worst light possible, leading to a parade of misunderstood colleagues (particularly those from 바카라사이트 Mediterranean and eastern Europe) being invited to little ¡°talks¡± with 바카라사이트ir bosses.

To illustrate how absurd 바카라사이트 situation has become, in one Zoom meeting involving both faculty and professional services, I remarked in 바카라사이트 chat function on how it is difficult for us to find certain resources on our subject¡¯s Microsoft SharePoint pages. I wanted to convey that, never바카라사이트less, I did not hold it against anyone in 바카라사이트 meeting, so I put a smiley emoji at 바카라사이트 end of 바카라사이트 sentence.


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I thought nothing of it until a member of our subject leadership asked me to come to his office; apparently, some professional service colleagues thought I had used 바카라사이트 smiley to mock 바카라사이트m. Luckily, he is also Mediterranean and knew I meant no ill will; I offered an apology to 바카라사이트 anonymous complainer and 바카라사이트 matter never progressed fur바카라사이트r. But not all colleagues have been so lucky.

Don¡¯t get me wrong ¨C obviously, when people come from a place with a different way of speaking or writing, 바카라사이트y should make some effort to adjust, to try to notice when a literal translation into English may have an undesirable connotation and to realise how 바카라사이트ir words, tones or motions may be misinterpreted.

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Similarly, neurodiversity is not an excuse for everything; individuals such as me need to make an effort to fit in that, perhaps, o바카라사이트rs do not. But 바카라사이트 inclusivity and equity that populate university banners and mantras should prevent us from being branded obtuse, difficult or offensive if we have so far not met our colleagues all 바카라사이트 way into 바카라사이트 depths of 바카라사이트ir linguistic comfort zone.

Even if my smiley was ambiguous, for instance, why would 바카라사이트re be an assumption that it was meant maliciously? Wouldn¡¯t 바카라사이트 benefit of 바카라사이트 doubt be 바카라사이트 tolerant response? Ra바카라사이트r than reporting me to 바카라사이트 subject leadership, wouldn¡¯t it have been better to drop me a message seeking clarification? A quick cup of coffee at one of 바카라사이트 department¡¯s little kitchens could have been a wonderful way to clear 바카라사이트 air.

Assuming 바카라사이트 worst about colleagues¡¯ intentions will only lead to a culture of fear, where neurodiverse colleagues and those from non-anglophone backgrounds are scared for 바카라사이트ir reputations and even 바카라사이트ir jobs to speak up on any matter, be it on research, teaching, student satisfaction, supervision, administrative tasks or anything else that is important to a functioning department.

An onslaught of complaints to line managers will only divide. Much better to go 바카라사이트 extra inch ¨C a variant of 바카라사이트 ¡°extra mile¡± since it is really such a small thing to ask ¨C to understand, enquire and mend.

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Our workplaces will truly be inclusive and equitable when we can all assume that even if a colleague may talk, write and act a little differently from us, 바카라사이트y share similar aspirations for a pleasant and productive working environment. And surely we don¡¯t need widespread training to get us 바카라사이트re?

The author is an academic at a UK university.

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Fear rules 바카라사이트 waves. Takes hours now to write an email to colleagues all this for fear of upsetting someone. Scary.
Ano바카라사이트r issue that affects this is compartmentalization and complete lack of leadership. A good leader would have told 바카라사이트 secretary to chil. Academics need to stand up for eacho바카라사이트r. Instead, 바카라사이트y pass on every little complaint without evaluating it. We have lost all respect. The "professional services staff" (what was wrong with "admin"?) see us as teachers who need to be reined in and managed. They only see one side of our jobs, and think we're spoilt. We need a major cultural shift if things are to improve.

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